Tuesday, 21 March 2017
Saturday, 18 March 2017
Coincidence or Causation?

Nowadays, I can remember with a half smile my first
years living in Spain. At that time, although I tried to see the
positive side of things (a long and tedious process to validate my
degree, living away from my family and friends, not having friends in
this country, starting a life with my husband), I inevitably fell
into the temptation to think negatively and consequently to fall into
a stressful situation.
That was until I met a person who would mark my life
forever. One day, I attended a conference on immigrant women which
exposed the complex problem of migration. Then, I was surprised how
my story was repeated over and over again with different faces and
nationalities. The weight on my shoulders seemed to lighten when I
heard that my problems in this country were more common than I could
imagine.
On that day I met Megumi a formidable Japanese woman.
Since then we have forged a great friendship. In fact, thanks to her
I was able to learn that patience is truly an art that can be
learned and stimulated. So every time I feel that a situation
stresses me, I make some origami cranes because: “An ancient Japanese legend promises that anyone who folds a thousand
origami cranes will be granted a wish by the gods. Some stories
believe you are granted eternal good luck, instead of just one wish,
such as long life or recovery from illness or injury.”
Friday, 17 March 2017
Wednesday, 8 March 2017
Like a clockwork slave, always getting wound up !

I often wonder
why we are so stressed, if we are supposed to live better with all
the technological advances at our disposal, why do we always say that
we do not have time? Or rather why do we not have the time to do what
we really want or need?
I believe, one more time, that the real problem is
that most of the time, we have lost perspective and the balance of
what is really important in our lives. We are losing our own skills
to know how to prioritize, to detect what truly makes us feel owners
of our time and, in the last instance, builders of our happiness.
Funnily, those who know how to handle stress better are the children. Their
cries, jumps, their inexhaustible energy to play and make up
awe-inspiring stories, games and so on, make them free to fall into
"the urgent".
Obviously, they
know what the urgent and the important is: .... happiness.
Monday, 6 March 2017
Sunday, 5 March 2017
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